Testimonials

For many years now, I have yearned for a training/ program that bordered on public speaking. I had also tried to search for such programs on the internet but it just seemed like such programs eluded me. In January a short video of a young lady caught my attention on Instagram and she was speaking to different groups of persons who needed to attend a program she calls "The Confidence Speaking Solution program". I knew this lady was talking to me . It seemed too good to be true I am a legal practitioner with over 2 decades of being in legal practice, still I knew I was quite deficient in the art of Confident public speaking. I avoided anything that would make me walk up on any platform to speak. I did not like being given any task even in the church I worship. As little as a task to read some verses in the shortest chapter of the Bible. I also did not enjoy being invited by radio or television stations to talk about women and children's rights even though I was the secretary of an organization that promotes and protects the rights of women and children. I was also encouraged to run for the chairperson of that organization having been secretary for years but I gave excuses/ reasons again why I did not want to run, but the truth was that I was afraid because being the chairperson meant I had no hiding place anymore and no more excuses not to honor invitations. I always looked for an excuse not to speak yet I knew I had things to say, but always felt crippled by so many fears. I was tired of running away from what I knew I had a passion for. I was tired of making excuses ,I was tired of watching years roll by and still not being able to overcome what was hindering me. So I signed up for the Confident Public Speaking Solution Program because I was tired of running from what could give me fulfilment. Truth is as soon as I decided to sign up for the Confident public speaking solution program, I wanted to run again. I was afraid of facing the fear I did not and could not identify, but I knew the program was the solution I needed, it had to be, it was. So I fought through the hesitations ,even though I had again looked for excuses/reasons why I might not be able participate. I thought of the fee to pay and my work schedule in the office being valid excuses but I knew in my heart that the fee for the program was quite reasonable, I was just being hesitant because I was afraid and ashamed my limitations would be seen. You can not imagine how blown away I was at the very first session. It was one of the most memorable days of my life as My coach , Coach Amaka began the digging deep session, nudging us to face our fears and see fear for what it really is a bully who feeds on the weak and should be stripped of its powers over us. I would never have thought that a confidence speaking program could be therapeutic. I wanted to learn the art of public speaking but I did not know that to thrive in public speaking, confidence was the ingredient and fear the antagonist must be dealt with. The confident public speaking solution program went far beyond what I actually thought I was signing up for. I must say here that I was always quite anxious whenever I was called upon to speak in any forum, I always sensed some type of tension but even after the first week of attending the one month program, I felt some calm on my inside. I have observed that this calm is now a part of me that I never had. The program, I also never thought, would assist me in my relationship with people around me. The confident public speaking solution program has taught me not to empower others to demean my person. I have learned in this program to learn to see failures as feedbacks .  It feels refreshing to feel lighter ,like a burden has been lifted off me and a new path is before me. I noticed a transformation in my walk. A confident bounce I can not explain. It feels to me like the work to confident speaking started from my inside ,my mind and it is now evident in my stride and my calm mien. My best part of the program was indeed the therapeutic session which was the first session. It was like the firm foundation that had to be laid to build the house. In conclusion , I want to state unequivocally that I would recommend the confident public speaking solution program to everyone, even to those who do not struggle with confident public speaking as the program is a solution to one's general well being in a society where many have challenges they cover so well but unknown to them it seeps out through the way they relate and treat others around them.  I Sincerely want to thank you my dear coach Amaka for impacting my life so positively through your program. I know I can never remain the same any more. I know it is a process and I am willing to go back now and again to the modules and keep using all you have shared with me all through my life time. I look forward to meeting you someday ,to share with you my many successes in confident public speaking. With gratitude, Pamela.